It is better to travel well than arrive. (Buddha)
I wish that I had not only figured that out, but also said it first. Never mind - at least I figured it out. Finally. This past week, my journey was very rocky and I was really angry about it. At my father of all people, who not only has been dead since 1998, but had Alzheimer’s since 1983.
That’s right, last week I was mad at a man whose hangups have been gone for 30 years. Please spell my name right when you quote me: “When your parents die, so do the hangups that made them fuck up your childhood.” Think about that!
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